TryNectar AI vs OurDream: which AI girlfriend app is better?

Our verdict

On features the two line up: both list pictures, video, voice notes, live calls, group chats, personas and long-term memory. The difference is the paywall. TryNectar AI's free plan gives 15 messages and 10 image generations a day, and Premium costs $5 a month yearly (TryNectar AI pricing lists every tier), but unlimited messages and video are held back for a higher tier, and premium memory stops after you cancel.

OurDream puts unlimited messages, video and 1,000 dreamcoins a month into its one plan, at $9.99 a month yearly or $19.99 monthly. Nothing is free: each message costs a coin until you subscribe. If you know you will pay, OurDream gives more on its standard plan; if you want to test first, TryNectar AI is the safer start. Refunds are limited on both.

TryNectar AI vs OurDream side by side

How they score

• Conversation8.98.9
• Memory8.58.5
• Pictures and video8.98.9
• Voice8.58.5
• Value6.66.9
• Trust6.46.4

First bar TryNectar AI, second bar OurDream. How the scores work.

Price and free plans

TryNectar AI is cheaper: its lowest plan works out at $5 a month against $9.99 for OurDream. TryNectar AI costs $9.99 month to month, so paying yearly saves 50%. OurDream costs $19.99 month to month, so paying yearly saves 50%.

TryNectar AI free plan: 15 messages and 10 image generations a day, 1 custom companion, 1 persona. OurDream free plan: No free messages: non-subscribers pay 1 dreamcoin per chat message and get no free dreamcoins (referrals and Discord events only); images and video need a subscription.

Features compared

Both apps offer pictures, video, voice notes, live voice calls, group chats, a character builder and 18+ chat. On paper they offer the same features, so the choice comes down to price, memory and style.

Memory: TryNectar AI is listed as long-term, OurDream as long-term.

Who runs them, refunds and billing

TryNectar AI is run by Nectar AI, LLC, United States (Delaware address), UK office via Lick Labs Ltd. OurDream is run by Dream Studio USA, Inc., United States (Delaware corporation). TryNectar AI refunds: No refund of fees already paid for the current period. OurDream refunds: None once more than 25% of a purchase is used; crypto payments are never refunded.