What is an AI girlfriend?
An AI girlfriend is a chat companion powered by a large language model that plays the part of a partner. You pick or design a character, then text her the way you would text someone you are dating. She replies in character, remembers what you told her, and on most apps can also send pictures, voice notes or even call you.
The apps on this page are built for adults. Most allow romantic and 18+ conversations once you confirm your age, which is the main difference from general chatbots such as ChatGPT or companion apps like Replika that keep things clean. Our full guide to how AI girlfriends work covers the technology, and the best NSFW AI girlfriend apps covers the uncensored side.
How we rank AI girlfriend apps
Every app is scored out of 10 on six things, weighted by how much they matter to someone paying for a companion:
Scoring weights
| What we score |
Weight |
What it covers |
| Conversation |
25% |
Roleplay depth, personas, scenarios and how natural the chat is |
| Memory |
20% |
Whether she remembers you between chats, and whether you can edit what she remembers |
| Pictures and video |
20% |
Selfies, photos and video clips on request, and what they cost |
| Value |
15% |
The real monthly cost once tokens and credits are counted |
| Voice |
10% |
Voice messages and live calls |
| Trust |
10% |
Whether the company behind the app is named, where it is registered, and how clear billing is |
We build each score from what the app itself publishes on its pricing, feature and terms pages, re-checked every month. If an app does not say it can do something, we mark it as a no. Apps cannot pay to move up: we earn a commission from some of them, and six apps in our top ten (Nomi AI, Selira AI, FantasyGF, Infatuated AI, Kindroid and TryNectar AI) pay us nothing. The full methodology explains every score.
AI girlfriend apps compared feature by feature
The table below shows what each of the top 15 apps says it can do. A "No" means the app does not advertise that feature on its own website, not that we found it broken. Live calls are one of the rarer features: only 15 of the 31 apps we track offer two-way voice calls, while 30 can send pictures. Group chat is rarer still.
Features of the 15 best AI girlfriend apps, from each app's own website
| App |
Pictures |
Video |
Voice notes |
Live calls |
Build your own |
Group chat |
Memory |
| Secrets AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Lorebook + legacy |
| Candy AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Conversational |
| OurDream |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Long-term |
| Nomi AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Persistent |
| Selira AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
Yes |
Long-term |
| FantasyGF |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| Infatuated AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| Kindroid |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Long-term |
| My Dream Companion |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| TryNectar AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
Long-term |
| DarLink AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| Dondi.ai |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| HeyGF |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| Lovescape |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
| My Lovely AI |
Yes |
Yes |
Yes |
No |
Yes |
No |
Long-term |
If one feature matters more than the rest, the dedicated rankings go deeper: AI girlfriends with voice calls, apps that send pictures, apps with video and apps with the best memory.
The best AI girlfriend app for each kind of user
How much does an AI girlfriend cost?
Most AI girlfriend apps cost between $4 and $20 a month. The low end is almost always a yearly plan paid up front; paying month to month typically costs about twice as much. Candy AI, for example, is $3.99 a month on a yearly plan and $13.99 month to month. Across the 31 apps we track, the median cheapest plan is $7.75 a month.
The subscription is rarely the whole bill. Pictures, videos and voice calls usually run on an in-app currency (tokens, credits, gems or coins) that the plan tops up each month and that you can buy more of. If you plan to ask for a lot of pictures, budget for that on top. Our AI girlfriend cost calculator filters every app by the features you want and shows the cheapest first.
Hidden costs: free limits, renewals and refunds
The headline price is where most comparison sites stop. The table below adds what each app's own terms say about the free plan, what a yearly plan renews at, and whether you can get your money back. Read it before you pick a yearly plan.
Free plans, renewals and refund terms, from each app's own pricing page and terms
| App |
Cheapest plan |
Month to month |
Free plan |
Renewal |
Refunds |
| Secrets AI |
$9.17/mo |
$19.99/mo |
20 messages a day, basic memory, 500-character messages; no Moments, so no images, video or custom characters |
Not stated |
No refund for the current billing period; access runs to the end of it |
| Candy AI |
$3.99/mo |
$13.99/mo |
5 chat messages in total, 1 custom character and 1 generated image |
Not stated |
Only within 24 hours of payment, with 20 tokens or fewer used, card payments only |
| OurDream |
$9.99/mo |
$19.99/mo |
No free messages: non-subscribers pay 1 dreamcoin per chat message and get no free dreamcoins (referrals and Discord events only); images and video need a subscription |
Not stated |
None once more than 25% of a purchase is used; crypto payments are never refunded |
| Nomi AI |
$8.33/mo |
$15.99/mo |
One-to-one chat with 400-character messages and fewer daily selfies; group chats, video, voice messages and calls are paid |
Not stated |
No refunds for buyer's remorse, lack of use or partial months |
| Selira AI |
$3.60/mo |
$7.99/mo |
Unlimited text chat, 2 custom companions, chat history kept 3 days, no monthly image or video credits |
Not stated |
Non-refundable except where law requires; technical problems reviewed within 14 days |
| FantasyGF |
$5.83/mo |
$12.99/mo |
Free account with a $0 trial; the free message cap is not published |
Not stated |
Subscriptions only before the next billing period starts; unused one-off purchases within 7 days, case by case |
| Infatuated AI |
$6.99/mo |
$9.99/mo |
Up to 10 messages per chat |
Not stated |
All sales are final, with no refunds under any circumstances |
| My Dream Companion |
$5.84/mo |
$11.99/mo |
1 character and a limited number of messages, typically 10 to 20 (terms); more free credits from tasks |
Not stated |
No refunds except for company errors or technical faults, case by case |
| TryNectar AI |
$5/mo |
$9.99/mo |
15 messages and 10 image generations a day, 1 custom companion, 1 persona |
Not stated |
No refund of fees already paid for the current period |
| Lovescape |
$7.99/mo |
$19.99/mo |
Free account with chat and memory ("Chat and memory stay free, always"); Chips for images and video are sold to subscribers only |
Not stated |
Chips are non-refundable once bought; subscription refund terms not published |
| My Lovely AI |
$6/mo |
$19.99/mo |
Starter plan: base models, video creation access, save and share images, 1 character generation |
The $2.99 two-day trial renews at $19.99 a month |
EU users can withdraw within 14 days if premium features are unused; otherwise discretionary within 24 hours |
| DreamGF |
$5.83/mo |
$12.99/mo |
Free trial plus a daily claim of 10 messages, rising by 1 a day on a streak to 50 |
Monthly renews at $25.99 after a $12.99 first month; yearly renews at $311.88 after a $69.99 first year |
No refunds unless law requires; none on 3- or 12-month plans once used |
| Kupid AI |
$14.92/mo |
Not published |
15 messages, 1 custom character, memory of the last 30 messages; no photos, videos or voice |
Not stated |
All sales are final, with no refunds for any reason |
Two patterns stand out. First, yearly plans are charged in one payment on day one, and some renew at a higher price than the first year. Second, refunds are rare: several apps say all sales are final, so a month-to-month plan is the safer way to start. Our guide to cancelling an AI girlfriend subscription covers how to stop a renewal.
Can you get an AI girlfriend for free?
Yes, but with limits. Nearly every app lets you create an account and chat for free, then caps the number of messages, locks pictures and voice behind the paid plan, or both. Free plans are good for finding a character you like before you pay. We list the exact free limits for each app in the best free AI girlfriend apps.
Are AI girlfriend apps safe?
The better apps are safe to use if you treat them like any other subscription service. Three things are worth checking before you pay:
- Who runs it. Every app we track names a company somewhere in its terms, but you often have to dig for it. Candy AI is run by EverAI Limited in Malta, DreamGF by DreamAI SRL in Romania and Secrets AI by Secret Labs Inc. in the United States; many others are small companies registered in Cyprus or Delaware. Knowing the company and country matters when you want a refund or your data deleted.
- How billing works. Yearly plans are charged in full on day one and usually renew automatically. Set a reminder a few days before the renewal date if you are not sure you will keep it.
- What you share. Your chats are stored on the company's servers. Do not share your full name, address, workplace or photos of real people.
Our guide to AI girlfriend privacy and safety goes through data deletion, payments and age checks in detail.
How to choose the right AI girlfriend app
- Decide what matters most. If you mainly want to talk, choose on conversation and memory (Secrets AI, Nomi). If you want pictures, choose on image quality and cost per picture (Candy AI, OurDream). If you want to hear her, look for live calls (TryNectar AI, Infatuated AI).
- Start on the free plan. Pick two or three apps from the table above and try each for a day before paying anything.
- Check the real price. Compare the monthly price you will actually pay, not the headline yearly rate, and check how many pictures or minutes the plan includes.
- Pay monthly first. A month-to-month plan costs more but lets you leave. Move to yearly once you know you will stay.
Frequently asked questions
What is the best AI girlfriend app?
Secrets AI is the best AI girlfriend app overall in our September 2026 ranking, with a score of 8.5 out of 10. It has the deepest memory system, pictures, video, voice calls and group chats. Candy AI (8.3) is the best value, and TryNectar AI (8.2) is the cheapest app in our top 15 with live voice calls, at $5 a month.
Is there a free AI girlfriend app?
Most do, but the limits vary a lot. Selira AI gives unlimited free text chat, TryNectar AI 15 messages and 10 pictures a day, and Secrets AI 20 messages a day. Candy AI allows only 5 free messages in total, and OurDream has no free messages at all. See our free AI girlfriend ranking for every app.
How much does an AI girlfriend cost per month?
Most AI girlfriend apps cost between $4 and $20 a month. The cheapest prices are on yearly plans paid up front, such as Candy AI at $3.99 a month. Month-to-month plans usually cost $10 to $20 (the median is $14.99), and pictures or calls can cost extra tokens.
Can an AI girlfriend send pictures?
Yes. 30 of the 31 apps we track can generate pictures of your character on request, including Secrets AI, Candy AI, Infatuated AI and OurDream. Pictures normally use tokens or credits, so heavy use costs more than the base plan.
Can I talk to my AI girlfriend on the phone?
Yes, on 15 of the 31 apps we track, including Secrets AI, OurDream, Nomi AI, FantasyGF, Infatuated AI, My Dream Companion, TryNectar AI and DreamGF. Others only send recorded voice messages. See our list of the best AI girlfriend apps with voice calls.
Are AI girlfriend apps only for 18+?
Yes. Every app on this site is for adults only and asks you to confirm you are over 18. Apps that allow explicit content may also ask for age verification before unlocking it.
Is it weird to have an AI girlfriend?
Millions of adults use AI companion apps, for company, practice at conversation, entertainment or fantasy roleplay. It is a personal choice. Treat it as entertainment, keep your spending in check, and do not let it replace relationships you value.